With the development of society, the competition of the entire society is more and more intense, causing increasing pressure to people. Stress of study, work and life are ubiquitous, but how can we deal with it? Here are some tips that I hope can be useful.
随着社会的发展，全社会的竞争越来越激烈，给人们带来了越来越多的压力。学习，工作，生活上的压力是最普遍的，但是我们怎样才能应对它？以下是几点建议，希望对大家有用。
Firstly, keep good health. A healthy body is the premise to face presure. It’s the least capacity to cope with stress when a person is sick. Secondly, to accept the pressure. The reason why many people can not cope with stress is that they resist and escape it. Actually, there always is trouble and problems once we chose a path to go, because almost everything worth doing is not so easy. Thirdly, solve the problem, rather than complain about it. Many people complain about the surroundings and don’t think about the solutions when faced with problems. We all know that complaint can do nothing but only let you down. As long as the problem not solved, the pressure is always there. Fourthly, tell others your pressure and get help from them. Lots of pressure can’t be solved by our own and the rational way is talking the pressure to workmates or friends to get help from them. But the premise to do so is that we don’t intend to put pressure to others but to seek help and support to solve problems.
首先，保持健康。健康的体魄是面对压力的前提。当一个人生病的时候，应对压力的能力是最小的。其次，接受压力。人们不能够应对压力是因为他们抵抗和逃避压力。实际上，一旦我们选择了要走的路，总是会有麻烦和问题，因为几乎每一件值得做的是都不是那么容易的。再次，解决问题，而不是抱怨它。的那个面对问题的时候，很多人抱怨环境而不思考解决方法。我们都知道抱怨什么都解决不了，只会让你失望。只要问题没有解决，压力就一直在那里。最后，告诉别人你的压力，向别人寻求帮助。很多压力靠自己是解决不了的，理智的方法是向同事或者朋友倾诉，从他们那里得到帮助。但是这样做的前提是我们不是故意给别人压力，而是寻求帮助和支持以解决问题。
Of course, there also are some other ways to cope with stress, such as readjusting goal and expectation, playing games to relax, even shopping or eating. But no matter how, solving the problem that causes stress is the best way.
当然，还有其他应对压力的方法，比如重新调整目标和期望，玩游戏放松，甚至是购物或者吃东西。打那时不管怎样，解决引起压力的问题是最好的方法。
