As we all know, the situation of school violence most appears in high school, because the students are in the age of rebellious phase. But recently, the school violence situation is increasing rapidly with a trend of small age among primary and secondary school students. The reason why students become more aggressive than before, I think both parents and school are lay responsibility at this.
众所周知,校园暴力的情形通常发生在高中,因为学生正处于叛逆期。但是最近这种校园暴力情况呈现低龄化,出现在小学和初中。我想家长和老师在学生变得比以前好斗这个问题上有不可推卸的责任。
In the first place, some parents spoiled their child so much that they won’t let other child to hurt their baby a little bit. And they always teach their child to strive for what they want, but they usually didn’t tell them the exactly right way to achieve their goal. As a result, child chooses the most direct way to get what they want, like use violence. This is a consequence that kids doing something without their parent are the right guidance.
第一,有些家长是在是太宠孩子,他们不会让其他孩子伤他们的宝贝一根毫毛。他们也总是教孩子要争取他们想要的,但是通常他们没有告诉他们如何正确的达到他们的目标。结果就是,孩子通常会选择最直接的方法,使用暴力。这就是孩子做事没有得到父母正确指导的后果。
In the second place, most schools focus on the teaching quality too much; hence, they ignore the mental growth of the students. Compare to the student achievement, the bully case really doesn't seem so important, as long as it is not so serious. As a matter of fact, the abuser will become more violent if no one stops them, at the same time, the victim will become weaker or they might also become an abuser to bully the one who are weaker than them.
第二,很多学校只注重教学质量,因此,他们无视了学生的心理成长。相对于学生的成绩,那些欺凌事件并不是很重要,只要不是很严重就好。事实上,施暴者如果没有人阻止他们的话,他们会变得更加暴力,同时,受害者会变得比以前更加懦弱,或者他们也会变成施暴者,去欺凌比他们弱的学生。
To speak frankly, only when parents and teachers pay more attention to the mental growth of children and stop the school violent in time, can the problem be solved in near future.
坦白的说,只有家长和老师都注重学生的心理成长,还有即使地制止校园暴力,这个问题才能在不久的将来得以解决。