People are like living in a big magnetic field, what kind of people you have around you, you will gradually become what kind of person. You become more mature when you surround yourself with positive people. Surround yourself with negative people, and you will degenerate even more.
人就像生活在一个大的磁场中,你身边有什么样的人,你就会慢慢变成什么样的人。和积极向上的人在一起,你会越发成熟稳重;和消极负面的人在一起,你会越发堕落。
I believe we have all heard such a saying: close to the red, close to the black, this truth we all understand. It means being with someone who is better than you, you will be influenced by him, learn from him, and look up to him; With someone who is not good enough for you, you will let him go, go with the flow, and over time, you will have no upward mobility.
我相信大家都听过这样一句话:近朱者赤,近墨者黑,这道理我们都明白。意思是和比你优秀的人在一起,你会受到他的影响,向他学习,向他看齐;和没有你优秀的人一起,你会由着他去,随波逐流,时间久了,自己也就没有了上进心。
Therefore, we should spend more time with positive people, because they will bring you positive energy, make you happy and make you progress. It can also give you motivation, let you have the desire to learn, have the impulse to improve.
所以,我们应该多和积极向上的人在一起,因为他们会给你带来正能量,让你快乐,让你上进。还可以给你带来动力,让你有学习的欲望,有进步的冲动。