There is an old Chinese saying: Top students come from strict teachers. Perhaps
affected by this saying for a long time, we believe it right. However, as time flies, lots of things have changed. Therefore,
I am eager to discuss what relation is the best between teachers and students.A teacher can treat a student in two ways .One
is strict, and the other is friendly. Most teachers prefer the first way.To start with, we certainly have to admit that
strictness is very effective, especially to the naughty pupils. As pupils we aren’t able to control ourselves well or fix
our attention on one thing for a long time. We do most things because they are interesting or we feel like doing. We are
always looking out of the window in class. Sometimes, we get to play games and forget our homework. On this occasion,
strictness is a must. It not only forces us to do the right thing, but also helps us develop a good learning habit, which is
of great importance during our whole life .In other words, it is the first step to success.Still, everything has two sides.
Its weak points are very obvious. You see, there’re top students in a class, where average students make up the majority.
Then teachers’ orders or suggestions are for the majority, not for top students. However, top students always have their own
study plans and prefer special homework, so orders usually won’t take great effect on them. Maybe you have thought out that
teachers can give orders only to the majority and set some freedom to top students. However, it’s impossible .For a whole
class, teachers couldn’t give order to part of the class, for the majority would question why they needn’t do such work,
but we need? It would be probable that they think teachers treat them not equally, and will not obey teachers’ orders any
more. This is a difficulty for teachers.It also has another disadvantage——the communication problem .Since teachers are
strict, we never tell teachers our personal affairs or secrets. Mostly we just tell them to our friends, but as students too,
they couldn’t help to solve our problem, such as puppy love, communication problems or study problems .Not being solved
completely, they always disturb us, influencing our daily life and study. I’m sure that you think that making friends with
teachers can solve the problem, and you are eager to do so as well. But if we do so, new problems will come out .You see, an
adult couldn't control himself well at times, let alone us students. However if teachers are our friends, I doubt whether
their orders will take effect any more .You see, have we ever treated our friends’ orders as orders? We think they’re only
jokes. This is another difficulty for teachers.Additionally, our parents have the same problem. Yes, we need to be friends,
but not complete friends. We need to keep a certain distance, making us communicate well and willing to take your orders. I
remember a story.One day, a lady had her rest room decorated. And a skilled worker was bricking up the wall. Seeing large
cracks between the bricks, she questioned why. The worker told her after this summer, the bricks would become bigger, and
those cracks would disappear.That is not only decoration, but also communication. The principle is the same.
有句古话：顶尖的学生，从严格的教师到来。或许
此说影响很长一段时间，我们认为是正确的。然而，随着时间飞逝，很多东西已经改变了。因此，
我热切地讨论什么关系是教师与students.A老师最好能在两方面对待学生。一
是严格的，另一种是友好的。大部分教师喜欢第一way.To首先，我们当然要承认，
严是非常有效的，特别是对顽皮的学生。作为学生，我们无法控制好自己，或修复
我们关注的一件事很长一段时间。我们做的事情，因为他们最感兴趣的还是我们都喜欢做的感觉。我们是
一直在寻找出在课堂窗口。有时候，我们可以玩游戏，忘记我们的功课。在此之际，
严是必须的。它不仅迫使我们做正确的事，而且还帮助我们建立良好的学习习惯，这是
非常重要的在我们的整个生活。换言之，这是第一步success.Still，一切有两个方面。
它的弱点十分明显。你看，那里是在一个班，优秀学生在普通的学生占绝大多数。
然后，教师的命令，或建议，对大多数人，而不是最优秀的学生。但是，最优秀的学生都拥有自己的
喜欢的学习计划和特殊作业，使订单通常不会对他们有很大影响。也许你以为指出，
教师可以号令只对多数并设置一些顶尖学生的自由。然而，这是不可能的。整整
类，教师不能把以阶级的一部分，大多数人会问为什么不用做这种工作，
但我们需要？这将是可能的，他们认为教师对待他们不也同样，不服从教师的命令，任何
更多。这是teachers.It困难还有另一个缺点 - 沟通的问题。由于教师
严格的，我们没有告诉老师我们的个人事务或秘密。大多只告诉他们我们的朋友，但学生也
他们不能帮助解决，如小狗爱，沟通上的问题或学习问题，我们的问题。仍未能解决
完全，他们总是会干扰我们，影响我们的日常生活和学习。我相信，您认为交朋友的
教师可以解决问题，你渴望也这样做。但是，如果我们这样做，新问题出来。你看，一
成人无法控制自己的时候，何况我们的学生。但是，如果老师是我们的朋友，我怀疑
他们的订单将生效了。你看，我们有否视为订购我们的朋友的订单？我们认为，他们只
笑话。这是另一个teachers.Additionally困难，我们的父母也有同样的问题。是的，我们需要朋友，
但不完整的朋友。我们必须保持一定的距离，使我们沟通良好，愿意您的订单。我
记得story.One一天，一位女士在她的休息房间装饰。和技术娴熟的工人在砌体了墙上。看大
砖之间的缝隙，她质疑。该工作人员告诉记者，她今年夏天后，砖块将成为更大，
这些裂缝会disappear.That不仅是装饰，而且还沟通。其原理是一样的。#p#分页标题#e#
