离婚 About Divorce

投稿作者：梁宇  Jason

学校：湘潭大学

投稿方式：电子邮件

Nowadays, divorce rate has been rising sharply in China, because most people think that it's better to get divorced than stick to a bad marriage. But for those couples who have children, they had better think over before getting divorced. Parents' divorce may have some negative effects on their children. Firstly, the love of father is different from the love of mother. Children need both of the love. Without each of the love, they may not grow up healthily. Secondly, in order to raise the family, the single parents have to work harder, so that they may have less time to accompany with their children. The children may feel neglected, which may cause mental problems. Besides, if the single parents get married again, the children may get hurt by calling another person father or mother. If they can't get along well with each other, the situation will become even worse. Thus, for the sake of their children, parents are not supposed to get divorced in a rush. They should think twice.
如今，中国的离婚率急剧上升，因为大多数人认为离婚比维持糟糕的婚姻会更好。但是对于那些有孩子的夫妻来说，他们最好在离婚前仔细考虑一下。父母离婚可能会对孩子产生一些负面影响。首先，父爱和母爱是不一样。孩子需要两种爱。缺少其一，可能会对他们的健康成长不利。其次，为了养育家庭，单亲父母不得不更加努力工作，这样他们就没有那么多时间陪伴孩子了。孩子们可能会感到被忽视，这可能会导致精神问题。此外，如果单亲父母再婚，孩子们可能会因为叫别人爸爸或妈妈而受到伤害。如果他们不能好好相处，情况会变得更糟。因此，为了他们的孩子，父母不应该急于离婚应该三思再决定。