Life is like a journey, sometimes we will experience long overcast days, and sometimes we even encounter rain and wind. But no matter what the weather is like, we should never lose our expectations and confidence in a better life.
Sometimes, we will encounter setbacks and difficulties in life, but these experiences can also become opportunities for us to grow and become stronger. As an old saying goes, "Spring shoots after rain, spring shoots after rain". Only after experiencing wind and rain can we cherish the sunshine and warmth more.
In life, we also need to learn to appreciate every beautiful moment, whether it is a sunny day or a pleasant smile from a stranger. As long as we keep a positive attitude, we will find sunny days everywhere and every moment can make us feel happy and happy.
Life is not to live for others to see, everything is their own choice, so how to live without regrets, let life full of sunshine and hope?
First, stop worrying. You anticipate regret will be much more painful than it is. Studies show we consistently overestimate how regret affects us.
Leaving options open is not the answer. Ironically, leaving options open makes you dwell on whether you should change your mind. Once the situation is no longer reversible, cognitive dissonance works to your advantage and you're more likely to be at peace. Stop trying to maximize everything. It gets you better results but makes you miserable.
As with anything related to happiness, perspective is most of the battle. Stop comparing your situation to a lofty, perfect one and compare it to something far worse that you could have opted for. In studies, this is consistently associated with lower regret intensity.