如何帮助孩子变得独立 How to Help Kids to be Independent

原创 作者:adreep 2019-09-22

在中国,成为父母意味着许多责任。大多数父母习惯于为孩子安排好一切,比如安排好学校,甚至婚姻。由于大人们的过度保护,孩子们缺乏坚强的意志,过于依赖他人。父母应该注意帮助孩子变得独立。

如何帮助孩子变得独立 How to Help Kids to be Independent

In China, being a parent means a lot of responsibilities. Most parents get used to planning all the things for their kids, such as arranging schools and even the marriage. As the overprotection from the adults, the kids lack of strong will and rely on others so much. Parents should pay attention to help the kids become independent.
在中国,成为父母意味着许多责任。大多数父母习惯于为孩子安排好一切,比如安排好学校,甚至婚姻。由于大人们的过度保护,孩子们缺乏坚强的意志,过于依赖他人。父母应该注意帮助孩子变得独立。

Firstly, never worry about the mistakes that children may make. As they are young and full of energy, they are so eager to experience new things. The old parents always stop them to try, for avoiding getting hurt. But mistakes help them to grow up, for example, if a small kid never touch the hot pot, he will never have the idea how hot it is, no matter how many times they have been told.
首先,不用担心孩子可能会犯错误。因为他们年轻、充满活力,他们很渴望体验新事物。老一辈的父母总是为了让他们避免受伤而阻止他们进行尝试。但是错误能帮助他们成长,例如,如果一个小孩子从未碰到热锅,无论他被告知多少次他都永远不知道锅有多热。

Secondly, when children ask for help, just offer them little help instead of doing everything for them. When children meet problems, they will think of their parents immediately. The wise parents will guide the children to solve problems. They expect their children can learn the skills and solve the same trouble by themselves next time.
其次,当孩子们寻求帮助时,仅仅为他们提供一些帮助,而不是为他们做好一切。当孩子遇到问题时,他们会第一时间想到父母,明智的父母会引导孩子解决问题,他们希望他们的孩子可以学习到技能,下次自己解决同类型的问题。
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如何帮助孩子变得独立 How to Help Kids to be Independent

在中国,成为父母意味着许多责任。大多数父母习惯于为孩子安排好一切,比如安排好学校,甚至婚姻。由于大人们的过度保护,孩子们缺乏坚强的意志,过于依赖他人。父母应该注意帮助孩子变得独立。

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